My opinion posting from "Take a stand"

'Take a stand' topic : Childern should be nurtured independently from their parents.

People think that over-control occurs in chaotic or dysfunctional household,
but it is often seen in normal or model families.
If children were raised in the home that could be portrayed as "perfectionism, overprotection, dictatorship, rigorous family, authoritarian family, harsh family, restrained family" and so on, I think there must be over-control. so, let's look at the problems caused by over-control.

First, the consequences of unhealthy parenting create an adult with the distortion of feelings, desires, and thoughts. if one's life is in danger, everyone must avoid the situation. but, they who received unhealthy parenting can't control their minds and difficult situational awareness.

Second, you have probably heard the following word "Helicopter parents". it means parents who always walk around the children, resolve the problem every time with the children and know too much about children. children raised under helicopter parents are not self-reliant, and they have never solved  problems in a strange situation by themselves.

Third, due to parents' excessive obsession, children become less aware of themselves, lower self-esteem, and rarely make their own decisions. also, they have difficulties a lot about problems even though it is small failures  or trials. even they make extreme choices like death because thay are not nurtured independently.

Children should grow stronger with the love of their parents.
Good parents do not just give their children what they want but let their children get what they want and how to be patient. and they have to let the children know how to overcome difficult problems for themselves.
If children are too weak to be an adult and unable to defend themselves,  we all have to worry about. 
For these reasons, I strongly insist that children should be nurtured independently from their parents.

My two questions/answers from Gender Discussion Questions

1. Which do you prefer to have as bosses or coworkers - men or women? why?

I prefer to work with men as a boss or a coworker.
Above all,  men efficiently handle their works well and don't complain every single day due to delayed their works including arduous things.
Second, men deal their works reasonably than women even though they are urgent situations. sometimes it can be different situations or individual personality. but, in my experience, men are better the ability to act  and the fedelity about work instantly than women are. in short, men have an edge over women the effectiveness of works.
so, I prefer to work with men than women.

11. If you had the option of choosing your gender next time, which would you choose? why?

I would like to choose males if I was born again next time.
most females are more sensitive  and emotional than males. even though it makes up own's minds against serious problems, females don't have accurate judgement and tackle their problems head on like males. and, some women are overdressed or buy expensive decorations for themselves. it can be a subtle distinction.  I'm a normal person and don't like to even decorate for me.  so, I guess I don't have any choice actually. ^^
That's because I would like to choose males if I choose my gender next time.

How do you usually cope with stress?

Among the Stress- Discussion Questions, my choice is Num.10, " How do you usually cope with stress?

I am trying to do excrise to cope with stress.
Healthy people are better able to cope with stress. so, I  often walk up the hill from the main gate of the school to classroom for study. it's very hard to climb the hill to me. and pretty soon, I will take red ginseng for my health.^^
I hope health problems will not come back to haunt me.

Thank you.

Self-reflection from a self video clip

☆Self reflection
1. I didn't look at the lens of camera correctly with a lot of gestures.

in short word, I think it doesn't look good impression as a speaker.

2. I need to apply various vocaburies for the fluency and the use of grammartical  language.

☆What I 'd like to improve
1. fluency speaking
2. smiling face
3. restrained position

Even though my pose regarding a video is required much modification, I did do my best at that moment.

In fact, as I grow older, I am not photogentic well. ^^

Thank you.

World's longest table (article)

http://m.koreatimes.co.kr/phone/news/view.jsp?req_newsidx=152483

This story is just simply boggles the mind about making world's longest table as a human power.
I think this article will be motivated the challenging spirit to readers regarding new things. that is, all the people can do everything if they have self-confidence.
For example, I'd also like to show potential energy from the graduate school with my power even though it happens any difficult situation in front of me .^^
It occured to me an idea like above as soon as I find this article.
I hope to believe yourselves than ever before and enjoy my Blog in future.
Have a good day~~
Thank you.